Judges 14:2

Samson, who rose as one of the judges of Israel during roughly the 12th century BC, approached his parents with a surprising request: *“So he came back and told his father and mother, ‘I saw a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters of the Philistines; now therefore, get her for me as a wife.’”* (v.2) Timnah was located in the southwestern region of Israel’s tribal allotments, an area often influenced by neighboring Philistine populations. The Philistines were a prominent sea-faring people who had established themselves along the coastal plain, and they frequently clashed with the Israelites. Samson’s desire for this Philistine woman foreshadows the complicated relationship that will soon develop between Samson and this foreign group.

By expressing, *“I saw a woman in Timnah, one of the daughters of the Philistines”* (v.2), Samson demonstrates that he is drawn to a marriage alliance outside of Israel. From a cultural standpoint, this choice goes against the typical practice of marrying within the covenant community. Yet underlying these events is the sovereign plan of God, who sometimes works through unexpected circumstances to advance His greater purpose. This principle of God’s overarching plan, though not explicitly stated in this verse, resonates with the way the New Testament often reveals that God’s will can be carried out even through the surprising actions of individuals (John 19:11 NASB-95).

When Samson says, *“now therefore, get her for me as a wife”* (v.2), it highlights his urgency and determination to secure the union, despite the potential conflict with cultural norms. Historically, parents played a large role in arranging marriages, so Samson’s directive to his parents underscores the significance of family involvement in such decisions. Although the verse is specific to Samson’s personal choice, it also invites readers to observe how God can use every circumstance—including those that appear ill-advised—for His redemptive purposes.

Samson’s request illuminates his impulsive nature, signifying the start of bigger conflicts that shape his life and set the stage for God’s deliverance of Israel.